Let AI ask you questions and become your strategic partner
In his lectures, Utley emphasizes that users often think of AI as a tool that we ask questions to and then get more or less quality answers. In his opinion, one of the most effective ways to use AI is the other way around: let the technology ask you questions.
As an example, he suggests the following prompt:
“Hey! You're an AI expert
I would love your help and a consultation with you to help me figure out where I can best leverage AI in my life.
As an AI expert, would you please ask me questions? One at a time until you have enough context about my workflows, responsibilities, KPIs, and objectives that you could make two obvious recommendations and two non-obvious recommendations of how I can leverage AI in my life.”
With this approach, the AI leads a structured conversation that helps the user discover new, often unexpected, opportunities for using the technology in question.
Practical benefits and personalization
This method allows for a deeper understanding of an individual’s needs and tailoring recommendations based on specific goals. Utley’s example shows that in just a 30-minute conversation, AI can help shape personalized prompts that improve workflow and productivity.
In practice, such an approach can lead to personalized systems, such as customized pages in tools like Notion, with direct links and shortcuts to perform tasks. It is important to note that the results will vary from user to user – some will find solutions to improve their workflow, others to better balance their private and professional lives.
The importance of reflection and the role of AI
Utley emphasizes that the very process of talking to an AI, even if the user doesn't use the final recommendations, allows for valuable reflection. A conversation with an AI that asks the right questions can encourage the user to think about priorities, the way they work, and potential improvements.
This approach opens up a broader discussion about how AI should act as a solution-seeking partner, not just a passive information-seeking tool. It moves AI from being a system that answers to an active interlocutor and strategic advisor.